Teens on the other hand usually are and like to flip flop. There was some sort of queue that kid gave him otherwise he wouldn’t have done all that. So why are you trying to label him a predator? If this man was trying to rape him then he wouldn’t have just gotten up off the table and ran way. There are people who were held down, unable to escape, and forced to be penetrated doing tons of bodily harm to them. You’re the one minimizing what rape truly is by making this into some huge issue.
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And yet this kid was too afraid to throw a knee in the face of the guy trying to wrap lips around his penis? Yeah right. Trying to talk them out of fighting is like pulling teeth.
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“I was too afraid to get up.” from an 18 year old doesn’t fly. The story doesn’t add up and I really will not change my position on that. Say whatever you want about me for not believing it. A man who also just so happens to be gay.Īnd this man who had no prior rape accusations suddenly decides to just start ripping this guy’s penis out and sucking on it? The only reason this guy was really wrong is that he was at work and he wasn’t allowed to do anything sexual on the job.Ī ‘straight’ 18 year old getting a massage from a man. You’ve already labeled someone a sexual predator based on one half of a story and zero evidence.įact of the matter is 18 is adult and able to consent. How do you know this kid didn’t purposely seek out a gay man to get intimate with, panic, and then tell a story? The gay frends who I’ve told about it have has a similar reaction to a lot of people here - they’ve said things like “you must have done something to show him you were interested” or they say things like “did you deliberatley clsoe the door really slowly?”Ĭaptain Paco: How do you know he was a sexual predator? I certainly wouldn’t have even considered calling the police. What troubles me the most and what’s related to this article is that, if I’d gotten out of it without getting caught, I probably wouldn’t have complained because I wouldn’t have wanted to betray a fellow gay man or screw up the cruising for everybody else. And now I’m suspended from the Y for six months. The manager followed me, watched me get dressed and then, outside the change room in the public atrium in earshot of like 30 people, including parents with young kids, told me I was suspended for “what you two were doing in there.” It was a public shaming. The other guy took off, I went to my locker. We were ordered to get dressed and turn in our memberships. Within like 10 seconds, a (gay) manager pounded on the door (I guess others had been complaining about the guy) and demanded we open it. I thought about just letting stall guy finish off so I could get out of there. There was a guy outside at the sink so I waited. I just kept whispring no and pointing for him to go. And stupidly, I didn’t want to insult this asshole. I wanted to push my way out, but I also didnt want to get caught. There was noise outside, he went ‘shhh’ and closed the door, motioned me to stand beside the toilet where my legs wouldnt be seen, and started beating off. I didn’t want to get caught or make a scene and wasn’t sure what to do. As I was closing a stall, he pushed his way in.
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A while back, a guy followed me from the steam room (I left because he and a couple other guys were openly jerking off even though there were like 15 guys in there) into the bathroom. I’ve had guys regularly get grabby in the steam room, shower and hot tub at the Y and I just say ‘no thanks’.
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Personally, I would have just said no thanks and wouldn’t have called the police - but to call the masseuse the victim here is incredibly wrong.Īnd I shoud probably rethink my own instincts.Ī semi-relevant story about a sort of similar situation: I go to a Y where,there’s constant action in the adult-only membership plus change room. I’m astonished by some of these ‘he wanted it, why didn’t he leave sooner’ comments.